Saltgrass COO, waiter say racism story made up
So the story goes that a waiter working at the Saltgrass steakhouse restaurant in Odessa, Texas, received a “hate note” on a receipt showing that the waiter was not tipped because:
“We don’t tip terrorist”
and pointing to the last name of the server.
As a result of the waiter posting the photo of the receipt on Facebook he raised around $1,000 in donations out of sympathy, and the customer who supposedly left the note was banned from the restaurant for life.
And it was all a lie.
The Odessa waiter whose story about being called a terrorist by a customer spurred national attention last week now admits it was all a hoax.
The waiter, Khalil Cavil, 20, admitted he wrote the racist note himself in a Monday interview with the Odessa American, where he apologized to a reporter “because I did lie to you.”
“I did write it,” Cavil said, refusing to explain why. “I don’t have an explanation. I made a mistake. There is no excuse for what I did.”
Cavil’s call followed a press release from Saltgrass Steak House revealing the hoax. Cavil had lied about receiving the note calling him a terrorist while working at the restaurant on July 14.
Terry Turney, COO of Saltgrass, issued this: “After further investigation, we have learned that our employee fabricated the entire story. The customer has been contacted and invited back to our restaurant to dine on us.
Okay, two notes.
First, if I were the customer in question I would have told Mr. Turney to go fuck himself.
Because banning a customer without an investigation–and I suspect the truth fell out when the charged VISA card showed a tip being added, a process that takes about, um, like five seconds to verify–is nearly as unconscionable as the original hoax.
We have become a world where lies travel around the world at the speed of light, while the truth is often not only just ignored–but kicked in the teeth because it doesn’t match our emotional preconceptions. Worse: we’ve stopped being critical–at the cost of the emotional and social well-being of those around us. Trump supposedly said “kill all Muslims?” Yep, that gets tweeted around the world, and no-one gives two fucks if that was even true because it’s “truthy”; that is, it fits in our preconceived prejudices.
Did Obama really have an affair with Vera Baker? Sure, what the hell; because it sounds salacious. Was Vince Foster murdered by the Clintons? Hey, why not–it sounds pretty “truthy” to me. Does Trump hate immigrants? Absolutely! And nevermind his wife is an immigrant from Yugoslavia.
Some stranger supposedly refuses to tip, calling the waiter a “terrorist?” Yep, that goes around the world, hundreds are raised, a customer banned–before anyone bothers to even look at the fucking receipts.
We no longer pause and ask ourselves “was it really true?” And even if it’s not true, it’s “truthy”–there must be someone out there who wants to call this waiter a terrorist. They’re outside my ken. But sometimes late at night I can sense them, somewhere, in the distance. And that’s good enough to crucify this particular customer, right?
Second, and a more practical note, when you pay by credit card, you get three slips of paper.
You get the credit card receipt you leave your tip on, and you sign.
You get a copy of the credit card receipt.
And you get the itemized bill.
On the copy for the merchant, calculate your receipt, carry the sum to the bottom line, and sign.
Copy the tip amount and the total to the other receipt, and take it along with the itemized bill with you.
That’s how these fuckwads are getting away with these hoaxes. And this is not the first time someone has pulled this hoax. A waitress in Virginia tried this stunt a year before, claiming a family didn’t leave a tip but instead left a racist rant. In 2013 another waitress apparently pulled a similar stunt–claiming instead of an $18 tip, she claimed a couple left a homophobic rant. (In that case, the couple could prove the waitress was lying by showing their copy of the credit card receipt along with the line item on their credit card bill. The restaurant they went to could have proved the lie, but apparently decided not to bother, making them complicit in the lie.)
It’s sad that you have to protect yourself against idiots like this.
But you have to. Not because everyone is terrible; the vast majority of people are fantastic.
But because we have absolutely no God-damned sense of skepticism anymore, we have to protect ourselves. And taking the second credit card copy and the itemized bill is fast and easy insurance against this sort of outrage.